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Different Financial Starting Points Don’t Have to Mean Different Expectations

October 09, 2026•1 min read

“We’re getting married, but financially we’re in very different positions.”

If one of you has substantially more property, savings or other assets, have you discussed what you both expect those differences to mean after marriage?

One person may already own property. One may have significantly greater savings or investments. There may be a business or family wealth to consider.

From my experience as a family lawyer, significant differences in financial circumstances can make it particularly important to understand each other’s expectations before marriage.

A pre-nuptial agreement provides a structured way of doing that.

What Can Be Included?

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  • Existing property

  • Savings and investments

  • Business interests

  • Family wealth

  • Income and future earnings

A pre-nuptial agreement can address assets you already own as well as income and future earnings. It will often consider the distinction between matrimonial and non-matrimonial property and record how you both intend different assets to be treated.

Why Does the Process Matter?

Both people should provide financial disclosure and obtain their own independent legal advice.

The agreement should also be discussed sufficiently early for both people to have time to consider the proposed arrangements properly.

In my experience, this is especially important where there is a significant difference between the parties’ financial positions.

The objective is to ensure that both people understand the financial arrangements they are entering into and have had the opportunity to obtain advice about them.

Are you preparing for marriage from different financial starting points? Elizabeth Stocker is a consultant solicitor specialising in family law and nuptial agreements. She can help you understand how a pre-nuptial agreement may apply to your circumstances and guide you through the process.

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Elizabeth Stocker

Elizabeth Stocker

Elizabeth is a highly experienced specialist family lawyer, with a wealth of experience in navigating clients through the financial issues that arise from divorce and separation. Having spent the majority of her career since qualification in 2009 with a leading Oxfordshire family law firm (ranked Tier 1 by The Legal 500 & Chambers & Partners), she joined Setfords in 2020. Elizabeth has practical experience in an array of cases, varying in complexity and value including: - Securing financial settlements in and out of Court and through - Alternative Dispute Resolution such as Arbitration & Mediation (her negotiation skills are not limited to the Court sphere) - Helping unmarried couples resolve their financial matters as well as children matters in a complex legal landscape - Pre & Post Nuptial Agreements - Civil Partnerships - Separation & Divorce. Clients value her patience, empathy, support and for going the extra mile for them.

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